For the Souls Drifting Without a Map

For the Souls Drifting Without a Map

To live in a world where everyone seems to be hustling, chasing dreams, and planning years ahead can feel overwhelming for someone like me. I used to be one of them—until I turned 18. Seeing my biggest dream shatter was one of the hardest experiences of my life. The ache in my heart was unlike anything I had ever known.

After almost a month of feeling weighed down and confined within the four walls of my room, I chose to leave that chapter behind—because life always moves forward.

The decision wasn’t easy, but it was one I made for myself and my well-being. That was the day I stopped making long-term plans. Of course, I still make plans for the little things in life—projects, gatherings, and day-to-day responsibilities—but I no longer map out years in advance.

There’s always that one question interviewers like to ask: Where do you see yourself in five years? If you asked me today, I might simply pause. But if I had to answer, I’d say that I’m someone who goes with the flow—no rigid plans, no strict timelines. I still hold on to hopes, like anyone else—whether it’s to own a car someday or have a fulfilling job.

I know there will be judgment. People may question you simply because you don’t know what’s next. You might be called someone without ambition or labelled irresponsible. But here’s what I believe—in this fast-paced, chaotic world, the greatest achievements aren’t always the titles you hold or the fame you earn, but the person you choose to be.

To be kind when the world is harsh.
To judge less in a judgmental society.
To preserve peace and harmony when everything around you feels destructive.
To remain humble amidst prideful voices.

These are virtues far greater than any recognition or award.

I’m not dismissing the value of success, titles, or fame—they have their place. But above all, I hope that wherever life takes you, it leads you to where you are truly meant to be. I hope it brings you closer to the things your heart quietly longs for, even if they seem impossible.

And even if you have no detailed plan for the future, I hope you carry dreams—because dreams are seeds of hope. And I hope each one of yours blooms into reality.

Clueless or certain, with grand plans or none at all, the river of life will carry you to the shore where you are destined to rest.

Most ardently, yours,
Elaine Aby