Let's talk life............

Well, life's not the same for everyone, some people have it happy, some people have it sad, and not everyone who looks happy seems happy. 

Let's take the earth - around 8 billion people on earth and not all 8 billion are good for you - maybe physically good but not mentally. 

The moment we turn 18, almost everyone moves out of their homes to new places, either for studies or a career. It's hard yet the experiences at these places will either make you or break you. New people, new places, new faces, etc, & life is never gonna be the same. But there are certain things to keep in mind. 

•You do not have to change for anyone, whether you an extrovert or introvert, be you, be what you are.

•Don't judge a book by its cover, not everyone who looks soft on the outside is good inside. Character matters!!

•Make friends only after you know them very well, or else they might turn into a lesson for life.

•Sometimes silence is the best response to everything.

•Set boundaries - seek people who respect these boundaries.

•Your mental health matters. 

•Detach the toxic people out of your life, if they aren't good for your mind, they aren't good for you either.

•Don't let people control you or forbid you from things you love.

•Find a friend who you can rely on.

•It's okay to cry when things don't work out. 

•Don't be too quick to trust anyone. Take time to analyze everyone around you.

• Don't forget your family which you left behind, one day only they will be there for you.

Experiences teach you plenty of things. Life has to go on - these experiences will either rip you apart or put together a future. It's fine to be sensitive, silent, and a homebody. & also to everyone out there being silent & alone doesn't symbolize depression but rather someone delighting in their own company. 

- Elaine Aby