Critics & Criticism

In a world of chaos, there is good and bad, right and wrong, but the inability to differentiate the two is even more chaotic.

Not everyone's actions please you. But more than actions it's their words that bring us down. Some people are delicate and tender, & some are hard as a rock, and nothing can bring them down. Not everyone is the same, you can't expect people to meet up to your expectations, to look in a certain, to dress in a certain way, to speak in a certain way, etc, it's their life & their choices. They aren't living in our world but rather we live together in this world. 

Putting down someone, and criticizing them, humiliating them, can sometimes be silly, child's play but not for everyone, Imagine telling your deepest secrets to someone whom you trust, and one fine day they start mocking you with that same matter that hurt you, and you lose faith in that person, and you develop a fear to share your feelings to that person again. We never know what goes on in a person's mind until and unless you can read people's minds. Some are open books but some are books with covers that portray bliss but the narrative depicts the opposite. 

If you do not know to appreciate a person just don't, it's better than mocking, either keep quiet or be honest. Many in this world never receive praise or appreciation and when they do receive it makes their day bright and keeps them going.

To be hurt physically is better than to be hurt mentally by the power of words. Not everyone realizes this but words can either make you or break you. 

Not everyone is strong at heart and not everyone likes to be constantly disparaged. And that's what changes a person. 

Maybe your words can make a kind person, cold-hearted. 

It's people who change other people!

-Elaine Aby